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Blood, Sweat and Tears

According to Wikipedia, The expression 'bloodsweat and tears' is usually said to have been coined by Sir Winston Churchill in his famous "I have nothing to offer but blood, toil, tears and sweat" speech in 1940, when he warned the British people of the hardships to come in fighting WWII.

More recently and in my line of work, this expression has often been jokingly used to describe effort that is required to endure an hour long training session or workout. While I don't prefer that my clients lose blood during a training session, I do get the opportunity to see my clients sweat most the time and be brought to tears some of the time. 

You see, I ask people to do things they would not normally do on their own. I also push people to go beyond their comfort. I do this not only because I'm passionate about exercise and overall health but because I know that as human beings, we can learn, grow and accomplish more when we do what is oftentimes hard and uncomfortable. Good things come from hardship.

hardship (noun)

1.a condition that is difficult to endure; suffering; deprivation; oppression. 

2.an instance or cause of this; something hard to bear, as a deprivation, lack of comfort, or constant toil or danger.

Over my 15 years in the fitness industry, I have witnessed bucketfuls of sweat. Sweat is expected. I remember teaching kickboxing classes to large groups of people where so much sweat fell to the ground that towels were required to wipe the floors during the class in an effort to prevent slipping! 

Over the past 5 years, as a Personal Trainer, I've seen even more sweat but also I see tears. I'm often told that my training sessions are therapeutic. One client told me that coming to train was almost as beneficial as seeing her therapist. Clients often come to me with the weight of life and yet I still push them deeper, further and usually into a place of real discomfort. Occasionally clients feel safe enough to just let go and let tears come. Tears usually express deep, raw, real emotion and because life can be challenging and messy, hardships are a very real reality for many people. For me, training is so much more than making my clients squat low and push up. I get to look my clients in the eyes, listen and in the most gentle way say, "keep moving forward" and that my friends is enough to bring me to tears. 

Let me know if you are interested in sweating with me! I promise tears are not required. However, if you do tear up, I will listen. 

BETTER TOGETHER . . .

I ran track in high school.

I was pretty fast. Not Olympics fast, by any means, but fast enough to run the 4X100 and 4X200 relays. 

What I loved about track was that I could run fast alone, but to complete a relay race, there were 3 other people who were counting on my leg, my part of the race. During the 4X100, I ran the third leg: the curve. That was my thing. I loved to lean in to the left and speed along the curve.  

The timing of the hand-off in a relay race is everything. You have to wait for your teammate to approach you and take off at the perfect time with the perfect speed. The moment you hear your team mate yell "STICK," your hand flies back while running at the perfect speed to grab hold. At that moment, you TAKE OFF . . . You do your part, run your leg of the race as fast as you can to the finish line or to hand off the baton to the next person. It's all about timing, it's all about running your fastest, but you can't run a relay without other people . . . It's just not possible.  

Much like track, I like operating independently. I like to move fast, and if I'm honest, I like to do things my way. That is why, after 15 years of fitness experience with large companies and corporations, I decided it was time for me to start Bekah Self, LLC dba CustomFIT. But, much like a relay, I don't think it's possible to do it alone. I need others, and I think others need me. I need to learn more, grow more and experience more. I'm also here to cheer you on if you're new to the industry, and I would love to share what I've learned  and boy, have I learned a lot! I've learned things about myself and about the industry. But I'm curious about what you have leaned. What are you learning now?  

If you are a LEADER in the industry of fitness, nutrition, wellness, functional medicine, etc., I would love for you to join BETTER TOGETHER: a group inspired by God's love for us.  

We love because He first loved us.
— I John 4:19

 

We share because we love. We love because He first loved us by sending His only son to die on the cross for our sins. We share because of our desire to inspire and help others in the areas of health, wellness, fitness and nutrition. BETTER TOGETHER is a group for professionals, experts, educators and leaders committed to loving (and helping) others through fitness and nutrition because He first loved.  

 

Think not only about how you can help other leaders, but how you can help those who may be less fortunate; those who would LOVE to have fitness or nutrition support. Think about those who may not even know the benefits of fitness or nutrition. Think of those who may not understand proper form or good nutrition.  

THE WHY behind BETTER TOGETHER:

Smile

Just yesterday, I returned from Haiti, a third-world country that is filled with waste (literally). A country that is poor, lost and broken. A country filled with beautiful people who need support, education, and most of all, JESUS! A country filled with witchcraft and "evil spirits," with sickness and early death. A country filled with beautiful people who smile so big, you want to explode!   

One of my favorite experiences, and there were many, was when I was able to lead a group of Haitian kids aged 10-20 in a kickboxing class. This particular group of kids are called "Restaveks" which in creole means "to stay with."  These children were sent by their parents' to work as a servant because of the parents inability to provide for the child. I have never taught a kickboxing class with an audience so joyful. I have never taught a class with an audience so eager for the next punch or kick or squat. I have never felt more joy in all of my 20 years of teaching. I wasn't paid to teach a class to these kids. I didn't do it for recognition or credits. I did it because it was a simple gift I could give to a group who have maybe never done a kickboxing class.  

myWHY

You see, Haitian people don't have variety: They have limited options. They have no Costco; they are happy if they make it to tomorrow. Literally, these group of kids call it a miracle if they live to see tomorrow. They have experienced so much hardship in their short lives.

From oppression and violence he redeems their life, and precious is their blood in his sight.
— Isaiah 72:14

 

They are malnourished in many ways. Most Haitian people eat one meal a day and drink very limited water, not necessarily because they don't have access to water, but because they just don't drink it. They don't fully understand the benefits of water.  

Water is essential: It hydrates, it replenishes, it flushes out impurities, it has many life giving benefits.  

So is exercise.  

And so is loving, helping, sharing.

You see, we are BETTER together. We can accomplish more if we work together. Let's be a team. Let's share.  

Share best practices. Share inspiring stories. Share God's word. Share the love of Christ. Share with one another so that we can share with others who may be "less fortunate." I believe we have a lot to learn from the "less fortunate."  

Are you a Leader in the Fitness, Nutrition, Wellness world? Are you interested in linking arms with others to help those who need help?

If so, join us. Let's be BETTER TOGETHER! 

Message me on Facebook, shoot me a text or email. I'll send you more info.

#bettertogether 

 

5 Quick Breakfasts that Set You Up for Success!

You've heard it before: Don't skip the most important meal of the day. . . BREAKFAST!  

It is so important to start your day off right with a nutritious and substantial breakfast. Research is showing that breakfast should make up 25% of our daily caloric intake. With 3 full meals and 2 snacks that make up your day, you don't want to skip the first meal that contains 25% of your nutrition! Be sure to get in your 16 oz of water in the morning, too  don't let coffee be an excuse for why you don't hydrate with good ol' H2O. Add half a lemon to increase the alkalinity of your water. 

All of the ideas listed below are kid-friendly, so don't let your "kids" be an excuse as to why you can't make healthy choices. In reality, it should be quite the opposite: Because of your kids, you make healthy choices.  

Finally, please avoid the sugary cereals or breakfast bars!  

 

1. POP-EYE or "egg in a hole"  Add 1 tsp of ghee or coconut oil to a cast iron skillet. Using a glass, cut a hole out of 1 slice of Killer Dave's 21 Whole Grain Bread and toast in the skillet. Drop 1 egg in the hole, season, and cook to desired doneness. 

2. SPINACH Popeye  Heat 1 tsp of coconut oil on high in a cast iron skillet. Cover the skillet with a nice layer of spinach. Do not stir spinach; let it cook while you dice one clove of garlic to add on top of spinach. Next, top with 1 or 2 eggs and cook until desired temperature of egg (runny or stiff). I will sometimes flip my egg to cook it through. It's not pretty, but it sure is tasty!

oatmeal with chia or flax

3. OATMEAL with Chia Seeds and/or Flax Seeds and Blueberries I use Bob's Organic Steel Cut Oatmeal, and I usually cook them the night before and place in paper cups or bowls to make my mornings a little easier. *Add hemp seed for added protein and sliced almonds for added crunch. *Use minimal honey to sweeten up your oats!

4. GRAPEFRUIT with a side of TOAST & EGGS Sprouted grain bread, scrambled egg and grapefruit. Spread some almond butter on that toast for added good fat!

5.  FRITTATA  Prep onion, garlic and various veggies the night before by quick chopping and quick cooking them in ghee or coconut oil over medium heat. *You can also use leftover veggies from dinner the night before. The morning of, cover the bottom of skillet with 1-2 tsp of ghee or coconut oil and chopped veggies and top with 4 to 6 eggs (beaten). Reduce heat, top with small amount of parmesan cheese, cover with lid, and allow eggs to cook and cheese to melt. Serve with cilantro or fresh herbs, if desired. 

* Portion size will vary between men and women, as well as size and goals. Google the food you consume to understand calories. For example, for the FRITTATA, you can estimate 2 scrambled eggs contain 200 calories, plus 1/4 cup of veggies at 25 calories. At 225 calories with a side of half a mango (100 cal), that could be a good breakfast for some. In order to get your breakfast to approximately 25% of your daily caloric intake, add half an avocado (161 cal).

* Add minimal salt to all these dishes.

* Other great starters include protein-packed lean meats (watch for sodium), avocados, green tea, and organic vegetable juices (beets with stems, carrots with stems, green apple).

Let me know if you need help with your nutrition. I may be available to assist you in making healthy changes to your meal habits!

Go customFIT!

Bekah